That which you really want, you might get it, or you might not. Either way it is not the end of the world.
Some situations happen so as to teach you a lesson about how to deal with people or something about yourself.
Men are men. Use your guts to sift through them.
Women are something else altogether. Be fluid/flexible when you deal with them.
Money: Save save save. Always pay yourself first. A particular percentage a month. That money comes in handy when you have lost your job suddenly or there is an emergency. Or on your birthday 🙂
Love your body. It’s the only one you got. You can change it through exercise or lots of food. Either way, love it as it is.
The one who makes the butterflies all jumpy is the one you should take time to learn and observe. The one who is quiet and observant, that is the one you should sit with and talk about anything and everything. Let him lead the conversation, you will learn a lot about him through his choice of words and opinion. Those mind f*cks are the ones that will carry your friendship through the years and will broaden your mind in amazing ways. If you don’t agree, that’s ok.
You can always walk away.
You will not agree with everyone, and that is just the way of the world.
Don’t let anyone dismiss you, your thoughts or feelings.
Keep your mouth shut about a lot of things. Learn who to tell your thoughts to.
Faith in a higher power. Pray to Allah/God or Jah or the Universe. Everybody’s believes in something. The ancestors. Ancient Egyptians. Trust in it. It is powerful.
What seems big now, will be laughable in a week, a month or a year. It really is never that serious. Until it is.
Forgive your enemies, but don’t forget them said Tony Soprano. I agree.
Remember they who were good to you or helped you out. Always keep an eye out for them to help them or theirs back.